In this post, I’m going to share with you my experiences and conclusions from sleeping on the floor over the past year.
You are probably assuming I will favor sleeping on the floor for the sake of being unconventional. The Unconventional Route is my blog and way of life, after all.
Well, that assumption may be partially true for other topics, but not when it comes to sleep. Sleep is too important to mess around with. At the end of the day, I will favor whichever sleeping surface helps me feel the best possible, physically and mentally, throughout the day.
You should, too. So read on to learn some lessons about sleeping on the floor I learned the hard way and to reconsider what type of bed and mattress might best enable you to seize every day.
No Other Choice
My foray into sleeping on the floor began out of necessity, not choice.
I was fed up with fighting Kim for sheets and sweating my balls off in the double bed of the apartment we’d moved into a month prior in Valencia, Spain. According to my Oura ring, a finger FitBit for sleep, my average sleep scores dropped from 78 to 74. Not a huge difference but enough to make me feel worse than normal the next day.
Buying a new bed didn’t make sense because we only had two months left in Spain. So that left only one alternative: Either Kim or I had to get off the bed to make things more comfortable for the other.
Guess who won that battle?
Science is Sleeping On It
Before migrating to the living room floor, I did some research. Or tried to. Turns out science has little to say about different surfaces’ and positions’ effects on sleep:
- Nothing about mattresses’ effect on sleep quality. All I found is this study: 30 people tested had lower body temperatures, and consequentially higher-quality sleep, on non-memory foam mattresses.
- Nothing about mattresses’ effect on back pain. The most recent review I found, from 2016, sums it up: “There is no high quality evidence currently available to the support advice to use a particular type of mattress for the treatment of chronic low-back pain.”
- Nothing much on sleep position. Only this paper on instinctive sleeping positions observed in less-modern cultures, which has amusing photos of the author demonstrating “native” sleeping positions in a Speedo.
Even the website Healthline, which tries to convince Google and readers that it’s smart by wantonly linking to as many studies as possible, resorts to mostly anecdotal evidence and speculation in its article on sleeping on the floor.
So without scientific guidance, I winged it. I figured sleeping on the floor would be just like camping.
A Fitful Start
Going Too Hard
Sleeping on the floor was not like camping.
With just a yoga mat for padding on a laminate floor, my arms and legs fell asleep more than I did. And every night around 3 AM, my lower back woke me up screaming, “F you!” and didn’t stop until Kim emerged from her now spacious bed telling me it was time to get up.
Other bloggers’ posts on sleeping on the floor said it got better after about a week. I tried powering through. No improvement. Some said to try sleeping on your side or stomach. I tried that too. Even worse. That’s what I get for believing blogs. (Consider yourself warned.)
Sleeping on the floor is more like barefoot running than camping. It’s “natural,” but if you transition too hard, too fast, you can hurt yourself.
Two Types of Back Pain
Oddly, as loudly as my lumbar screamed at me during my fitful floor slumbers, the pain vanished within minutes of getting up. My lower back actually felt better than ever the rest of the day.
I realized back pain from sleeping on the floor is different from the back pain I’m used to. It’s not what you get from too much slouching on a couch or from lifting heavy boxes the wrong way. It’s a duller version of what you get from doing back extensions. Exercise pain. Good pain.
My lazy little lower back muscles were complaining about having to get back to work after decades of slacking off. I was pushing them too hard, but it was long overdue.
Another silver lining: I felt extra open-minded and creative.
Challenging the convention of sleeping on a bed seemed to turn off complacent mode in my consciousness. Like fasting, traveling, and other new things to try we recommend on this blog, sleeping on the floor proved to be a way to “act your way to a new way of thinking.”
If only I could find a way to be less delirious and drowsy at the same time.
Getting Into It
Softening My Position
My average sleep score after 17 nights of sleeping on the floor was 67. That’s crap—only marginally better than what I’d get from having to wake up at 5:30 AM to catch a flight after a night of heavy drinking.
So I gave up on “pure” floor sleeping and added a thick blanket below my yoga mat for padding.
My average sleep scores jumped to the high 70s overnight. Even better than the bed! And my lower back and creativity continued to feel stronger than ever. After a nightmarish first two-and-a-half weeks, I was becoming a sleeping on the floor believer.
Not Caring About Sharing
Kim was becoming a sleeping on the floor believer, too.
Of me doing it, not her.
She doesn’t have an Oura Ring to back it up but her sleep quality no doubt jumped ever since she had the bed to herself. Better sleep puts her in a better mood, which is good news for me. (Another relationship hack?)
On the downside, sleeping in separate rooms meant less hanky panky and fewer late-night chats. But both Kim and I were okay with those sacrifices if it meant better sleep.
No Magical Pain Relief
Based on others’ experiences I read online, I hoped sleeping on the floor would reduce the spasms and tightness in my traps that I’d started feeling not long after moving to Spain.
It didn’t make much of a difference.
Disappointing. But not surprising. Excessive hunching over my computer to work on this blog was clearly the culprit. Roundabout treatments like sleeping on the floor (or stretching or acupuncture) wouldn’t fix it. I had to address the source of the issue. But that’s another blog post for another time.
Finding My Form
Over the next nine months, I slept wherever was most practical as Kim and I moved around between Morocco, South Africa, then Canada. That meant I spent roughly half my nights on the floor, half on a bed.
This time and experience rounded out my perspective on sleeping on the floor versus on a big bed:
You Are What You Sleep On
I’ve become a firm believer that a harder bed makes you harder. And vice versa.
Mentally, it made me feel more resilient and adaptable. Every time I lay down on the floor, I can’t help but feel a bit like some unfazeable, Chuck Norris-esque ninja/monk. And I wake up more alert and ready to get off the floor and get going.
I feel more physically resilient and ready, too. My lower back feels stronger, as I already mentioned. I also feel there may be some truth to floor-sleeping proponents’ claims that sleeping on a hard floor improves blood circulation and joint function.
The extra daily mobility training definitely helps. Getting up and down from the floor and making my bed on my hands and knees forces me into positions I hadn’t regularly been in since daycare. If soft fatties with stiff joints did the same, I bet healthcare costs would drop.
Mattresses Marketing Is Fluff
I used to believe you should invest in the best mattress possible. You spend a third of your life there, after all.
Now, I believe that’s as misguided as the three-month salary “rule” for engagement rings. Like in the diamond industry, mattress industry marketers have manufacturing mirages of value to suck big bucks out of us. You can’t buy love with an expensive engagement ring, and you can’t buy better sleep with an expensive mattress.
How Matters More Than What
What we sleep on doesn’t matter as much as we’re lead to believe.
Mattresses are to sleep what shoes are to running. No fancy cushioning is going to make you a superstar sleeper. If anything, these “advanced technologies” screw up our physiology in the long run. All we need is something reasonably flat and comfortable.
What’s more important is how you sleep.
A regular evening routine and less alcohol, snacks, screens, and artificial light will do way more good for your sleep than any mattress, or lack thereof. So too will sleeping in darker, quieter, and cooler rooms.
Conclusion: Bitter Beds, Sweet Dreams
Sleeping on the floor is the bitter Brussels sprouts of sleeping. It will never be quite as appealing as the sweet ice-cream of cushy modern beds, but it’s better for you overall. And you can learn to love it.
That’s why Kim and I plan on sleeping on thin Japanese-style tatami mats and futons whenever we settle down. (Hopefully soon.) It gives us the best of both worlds. We can put our mattresses beside each other to cuddle, canoodle, and chat, but still enjoy our own space and the body and mind benefits of a low, hard sleeping surface.
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